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你知道最行之有效的教育方式是什么吗?是父母的以身作则,做子女的榜样甚至做子女的“偶像”!平淡的家庭生活,日复一日,看着没什么不同。但如果父母用一种榜样的心态和情调,为自己的子女,增添更多妙趣,结果会大不相同。人生可以是平凡的,但不意味着无趣。要让子女充分体验这个世界,趣味必不可少。<\/p>
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作为父母是否了解过子女的“偶像”是谁?是否想过,自己也可以成为子女的“偶像”?像培养“粉丝”那样养育子女,会发现亲子关系进入了新的层面,同时也会在这一过程中成为更优秀的自己!“偶像”带给子女的激励是巨大的,牛顿也曾说自己不过是“站在巨人的肩膀上”,正是前人的伟大,才启迪、引导后来的人。杜甫崇拜李白,郑板桥崇拜徐渭,正是因为有这一个个“偶像”的榜样和激励,才会让那些人更加的努力。<\/p>
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好的父母,在子女的眼里,都是最棒的榜样。子女能从你的言行里,看到自己心所向往的方向;从你的举止里,学到生活必备的仪式和规范;从你的笑容里,感受这个美好的世界,还有未来。成为子女的“偶像”,不是子女去完成你的梦想,而是你成为他们的动力,你的努力、学习、进步、坚持......都是子女以后生活的精神支柱。想让子女成为什么样的人,首先你就要成为那样的人。这是最重要的家教原则。成为自己子女的“偶像”,做这个世界上最成功的父母。<\/p>
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