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她们,是一群实实在在的微胖女孩。<\/p>
在别人都是“你很漂亮”、“你好美”的夸奖时,她们往往只能得到一句“你性格真好”、“你工作真努力”诸如此类的话语。<\/p>
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都说心灵美比外在美更重要,但似乎谁也没办法否认,女神级别的长相身材在婚恋交友领域中的天然优势。而至于这群微胖女孩,只能一边满怀期待,一边小心试探,一边又用坚硬的外壳包裹自己,以免受到不必要的冷眼和伤害。<\/p>
用《新相亲大会》中女嘉宾汤文君闺蜜的话来说,那就是,“在微胖子的世界里,在爱情这一块是又充满着期待,又有一丝悲凉的色彩”。<\/p>
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上周日,是女嘉宾汤文君第四次站上《新相亲大会》的舞台。都说“女追男,隔层纱”,但是在过往三期节目中,汤文君却一次又一次与“爱情女神”擦肩而过。<\/p>
舞台之上,为了把自己“嫁”除去,她承诺过减肥,愿意与男嘉宾白手起家创业,甚至甘愿放弃那点小女生的浪漫和幻想……当一次次的期待落空,我们没办法确定这其中有多少体重的原因。但,大多观念里以“瘦”为美的情况下,“微胖”的世界确实并那么友好。她们害怕听到别人诋毁的语言,甚至都不知道该如何面对别人的赞美。<\/p>
但其实,微胖女孩们也在试着改变,她们在试着变得更加自信,变得更加优秀,变得更加勇敢。<\/p>
第四次坐在《新相亲大会》的女嘉宾席,面对心仪的男嘉宾胥添麒,汤文君毅然决然选择了爆灯,用这种最勇敢的方式发表爱的宣言。<\/p>
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巧合的是,胥添麒却也在节目中明确表示,自己对另一半的身材、长相完全不介意,因为“那些是在个性、事业以下的一个条件”。<\/p>
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胥添麒的话,仿佛给汤文君打下了一阵强心剂,也是对她勇敢追爱的最佳回馈。生活就是这般奇妙,当你始终期待,始终向往,并始终具备爱的能力时,爱情就会在不期而遇中到来。<\/p>
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但其实,即便勇敢如汤文君,我们依然能在最后关头看出她的担心和忧虑。当知道男嘉宾不介意另一半身材长相时,汤文君承认自己的心情是复杂的。开心的是,很少有男生不介意这些;遗憾的是,自己本应该以更优秀的姿态出现在他面前。<\/p>
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诚然,汤文君的幸福牵手,只是属于她一个人的恋爱狂想曲。但对所有微胖女孩而言,这确确实实是一种莫名的鼓舞和激励。从汤文君闺蜜的痛哭流涕中,我们多少能感受到“微胖”这件事本身带来的沉重和压力。<\/p>
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无论如何,每个善良的人都值得被爱,微胖女孩也不例外。只要你用积极的心态去面对世界,去阳光生活,就一定能找到属于自己的光芒。愿这个世界上的每一个微胖女孩,都能被温柔以待。<\/p>
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